Are you ready ?My first time was pretty bad,I thought that will never end....i was screaming 'cause it really hurts ....

in your first time.. if you are not feeling good please ask your boyfriend to stop ...there are a lot of techniques .... try to read about and talk to friends...there are some interesting article:

Ten Rules of Anal Sex
by Jack Morin

1. Anal intercourse is the least practiced form of anal sex.

2. Anal stimulation, including intercourse, is not painful if done properly.

3. Anal sex can be enjoyed even if it has been consistently uncomfortable in the past.

4. Two muscle rings called sphincters surround the anal opening. Each functions independently.

5. Anal stimulation provides many kinds of pleasure

6. Anal stimulation can lead to orgasm

7. Diet contributes to the enjoyment of anal sex

8. Different rules of hygiene apply to the vagina and rectum

9. Anal intercourse is not necessarily an act of dominance and submission.

10. Anal sex can be perfectly safe, even beneficial.