Marriage can be the best thing ever for two people that can make love a word with its entire letters to be worth, but in most cases marriage can have some little troubles that must be solved day by day. All these little tasks can be just sully things, but if we start to collect them and name them, it can become a snow ball, and as we know, just a little few of people survive from an avalanche.
To get married is a decision people must think for a long time, because it is – why not – a contract for a lifetime. And as it involves two parts, both of them must be apart of everything that will happen from there on.
It is known that marriage is a bunch of complex items that, reunited will result on the couple’s identity, and a very important item surely is sex.
There are those people that sex involves only sexual instinct and wildness of the moment. However, there are those defending the idea that sex is love, delivery of the soul and everything linked to the fact that sex can only exist with pure love. In fact these two thinking have some truth. Leaving these two ideas about what sex is, we can approach sex as a general idea; the organic one. As you need to face your partner every single day in your years, how many times a week you must have sex? Two, three? More? Less? The frequency you have sex with your husband/wife is not just important to your physical needs, but to the couple’s moral, facing times and difficulties. So, for example, a five years married couple, start to think how many times a week they have sex today compared to the beginning, they will realize that it surely decreased with the years. It must be worked to never affect the entire relationship. Because passion can finish; and all that remains is love and its consequences.